Confidently she will be nice to you. You don't really know her. She has her ways. Not really sure where she learned those tricks. She appears very pleasant after 20 minutes.

From her maybe you hope to learn a thing or two. How she took good care of herself, rich boyfriends she has and nice exotic places she visited.

You both keep in touch.

Suddenly after two weeks, she sent an sms asking if you could help her. Money of course. She is a little broke, "not much" she said. 500 ringgit only, urgent!

Still you both keep in touch.  She and her good taste of places to eat, shop and hang out. She even list out what you should wear and avoid. You thought it's helpful...since you are rather fashion blind. She keeps telling you she is a part-timer, she got many friends so job is easy. Sales need someone like her. Being you, you don;t want to ask too much about her income, it's rather rude you think.

You feel good about gals nite out...she will always have an idea. It is okay when she told you she brought a wrong purse...with no $$$ in it. As long as both of you have fun. What is 50 ringgit spent on drinks and food for a friend?

She has another emergency...urgently asking for 500. Reminding you of the previous 500 unpaid. Which you are shy to ask. Why shy? You wonder as well

This is the time for you to look deep at what are u doing.

Some people are just out there to use  you and opportunities available. Human can be so sweet at certain point.

This kind of person deserves no attention from you at all. 

let me list out basic characters of a good human.

1. full of respects

2. not an opportunist

3. supporting you all the way even if she has to fork out money

4. give and take be it time, money or materials

5. conversations flow both ways. Not you listening all the time

6. emotionally supportive though she can't do much

7. never ever hurt you

8. willing to give sincere explanation at any given time

9. saying thank you even on small matters

10. takes you as you are....