There is a list of things, under NO circumstances, should a boss ass do.

1. Talk negatively about themselves.
I mean come on, if you're a boss ass, then you're fabulous, and if you're fabulous, you know it and don't have a doubt about it. Plus it sounds whiney and attention seeking, which brings in a lot of unnecessary drama.

2. Talk negatively about others.
A boss ass doesn't need to prove themselves to anyone else, by putting others down. Being a boss ass means you're too cool for gossip and all that other stereotypical basic stuff.

3. Over Exaggerating feuds/breakups so you can  look like the victim
Seriously, unless you plan on writing a whole song album named after your birth year and dedicating it to boyfriends past to start a new era, there's no reason to victimize yourself. You  ended an old chapter to move on to the next, it happens but it's not the end of the world, just because he was so tall and handsome as hell, and had *hella good hair* is not reason enough to keep dwelling on the past.