No matter how harsh your past experiences are, always be gentle to the people around you. Even at yourself, it's always the first time to live the life you've dreamed of.

You'll never know if the experience you had, is what others are currently experiencing at the moment. You would see them smiling, laughing, and bursting their energy around you. They would go out to a cafe with you, shop with you, and would randomly ask you to hang out anywhere. So you aren't able to tell. They would think that you aren't supposed to know because they may be uncomfortable talking about it so they just forget about everything whenever they're with you and have a little fun for a while. Just like you did.

Those friends who always check up on everyone might be experiencing their lowest times. And you won't even have a clue. So do me a favor, and check on them. Ask them how they are. Just like how you would want to be checked up on.