Guilt

I have been asked many times by girls that how can they erase the guilt from their heart, of committing sins. Honestly I told every single one of them, that let it be there. It is a blessing, it is mercy from Allah swt.♥️
You see, everyone sins, but not everyone is ashamed of it. There are millions of muslims who are committing sins, showing them off proudly, telling the world how "liberal" they are. There are also many who claim to love Allah and yet they disobey Him without guilt, without accepting the fact that they are wrong. Rather they would start calling you judgemental if you try to advise them in public or even in private. May Allah guide them.
But what I am trying to say here is that GUILT is very important. When you sin and then you repent, there are many changes that occur in your psychology. One is that guilt, repentance makes you humble towards other people and their sins. You become more understanding and empathetic towards people and you don't call them evil or anything mainly because you have been there and you understand how it feels to be in the filth of sins. Your duas and salah becomes more desperate, you find real peace, you try to connect to Allah more, and you don't fall into pride and you are saved from thinking that you are the pious one. (Which sadly, many think) may Allah guide them.
It is important though that you should not drown in this guilt, keep it positive and know that Allah forgave you. He is Al Ghafoor and He does not care about how you have sinned if you have repented. Have good hopes from Him.
But guilt is so important, without guilt how can you ask Allah for forgiveness, how would you be able to cry in front of Him? Please don't allow yourself to be okay doing sins. No, it's not okay. No it's not cool, and no it's not true love even if you get married later, it is not a blessing and it will not give you any benefit on day of Qiyamah. Unless you repent.